Examine the expectations you've placed on yourself.Are you expecting to neutralize all positive feelings you have towards your ex?What would happen if you just accept that you feel love for him, AND that the relationship has run its course?
Is it time to dust yourself off, get over your ex, and start moving beyond the whole divorce drama?
While you can't totally wipe the slate clean, there are steps you can take to stop thinking about him all the time so you can concentrate on enjoying the life you have now.
Just keep reading to get some ideas to help you jumpstart the healing process. Experiencing lingering thoughts and dwelling on your former spouse is natural, but can hinder your healing progress.
Of course, there are plenty of sources to go to for divorce support, however, I believe in teaching self-empowerment so you get the big "win! Here are my best practice tips for getting over him and moving on!
This is supposed to give you time to get back to the real you.