Going too slow is much less about being respectful than it is about the fear of rejection.“I don’t get it, we had a great conversation but now she’s not replying…” is a sentence I’ve heard far too many times. She may be nodding her head ‘yes’ but it’s just to pass time until the date is over.
When I was younger, I had to learn that although I was attracted to older men, they never wanted to plan anything.
This was not because they were being irresponsible, but it was because they already felt working from 9 a.m. was too scheduled and they wanted everything else to be on a whim.
A lot of women will ask themselves, “Does he even like me?
” because when guys act like friends that’s what they get.
The more you learn from me, the more skilled you become at attracting women when you meet them and then deepening their love, respect and attraction in a relationship. Instead of trying hard to be “liked” when you meet women, they feel naturally attracted to you and they want to be with you.