I don’t want to call children baggage, but let’s face it, you’re not looking at him telling you he has a kid with pleasant surprise.
You may be freaking out right now, but before you start hyperventilating, just chill out.
So here is my advice about dating people with kids.
Take from it what you will: Wait Even though my boyfriend was eager to introduce me to his kiddo early on, we waited a long time before it actually happened.
I once had a blossoming relationship go pear-shaped when the new lady in my life, who’d never had children, got in a strop because I was taking too long to show one of my sons how to use a whipper-snipper and we were late for a brunch date.