Here are 8 simple rules that can help you not only make the experience a positive one, but actually get your ex back into your life — for good! Make sure you are emotionally available So much hurt, so much regret, so much anger and so much fear can make you emotionally unavailable on virtually every level imaginable.If it is likely that you will fail because of a sense of inadequacy/ insecurity, neediness, desperation, guilt, anger, jealousy etc. In this state, you are not at your best and you are not thinking clearly and rationally.
It starts with loving yourself, being honest to yourself and having enough confidence in yourself.
When you are honest with yourself, you’re able to be honest with others.
Deciding to take such an unconventional step needs to be done carefully since there are many ramifications for children and friends.
You wouldn't want to get children's hopes up, and your choice can confuse friends who have accepted your accounts of the divorce that typically frame the ex-spouse in a less-then-positive light.
Dating an ex can turn out to be the best thing in your life, if you’re trying to get back with your ex for all the right reasons.