Last July, he found out that he wasn't the only one getting the silent treatment.
"The amount of times that people are approached when they have photos is multitudes more than when they don't," says Gian Gonzaga, Ph D, e Harmony's senior director of research and development and head of e Harmony Labs. Leave behind group shots, which can make it confusing for other people to identify you, advises Spira, and choose a headshot in which you are smiling.
"Your primary photo should be all about you." She recommends posting between three to five photos only—any more and "it's as if you're already smothering your future partner." Also, be sure to include a shot where you can see your body.
You did nothing to deserve them and they don’t mean you need to change anything about yourself.
Delete them, block or report the person harassing you and do your best to move on.
Online dating is also a great way to date casually and meet interesting people you would not encounter in your daily life.