Through a simple "Oh, grow up," or a "Stop being a baby," your partner is rejecting the validity of your emotions.Your partner is basically saying that your opinion or feelings don't count.Note: the only exception to not using type "Not_Shared" is for the procurement cache and punchout.
There are three replication settings for dynamic cache that can be used: In Commerce, we recommend to only use NOT_SHARED type so only the invalidation is shared across nodes.
This prevents the overhead of replicating cached data to all the nodes and increasing heap usage and greater network traffic.
It's a flat-out dismissal of your emotions, but emotional invalidation is especially insidious because of its subtlety.
It's a quiet erosion of your value in the relationship.
The parameters of the cache are a matter of configuration.