A lot of our issues with one another were his “issues” with women.
He told me that I am the one woman he has actually been able to trust and love, but that we should only be friends because he is not ready for a committed relationship. We chose to be friends and and agreed that because we were soulmates, we would be able to conquer all obstacles with one another because of the deep love we have for one another.
Now that he is with this other woman he stopped making plans with me and talking to me. Not only because he only knew the girl for a week, but because he told me he was not ready to be in a relationship. They have been together for almost two months now and are inseparable.
We both grew a lot with each other and despite his hurting me, we still agreed that we were one another’s soulmates because of that “connection” we all talk about.
However, he met another woman and told me he was in love with her and that she is everything he has ever wanted from a woman.
It may help to ask some questions about the situation: If the answer to those last two is yes, then I'd suggest that you be a true friend and pray for them that God would give them wisdom, guide them to a God-honoring marriage through His Word and other believers in the church, and ask Him to guard your heart and mind, helping you to have honorable thoughts.