Similarly, treading onto paths that have clearly been denounced as ‘gory grey’ and thereby fatal, helps one learn lessons that unfold the wraps that drape the mystery that we call life.What I am getting at is that while ‘dating your friend’s ex’ is a clear ‘blacklisted zone’ in the relationship rule book, who really wrote those down?
Before you go any further, you first need to ask yourself if this person, your friend’s ex, is really worth your friendship, because that’s a risk you’ll be taking, Lisa Daily, bestselling author of , says that if you’re going to go for it, be prepared to deal with feelings of betrayal or anger.
“The more you can deal with and be upfront with all the web of emotions,” Luiz says, “the more your friendship has a chance of not only surviving but deepening.” Beginning the discussion with your friend might be scary, at first.
More times than not, going after your buddy’s ex is off limits and fully violates any type of guy code by which you might abide.
But every once in a while, the universe speaks to a person and lets him know that, although it seems wrong at first, there might be a bigger reason your friend dated this person in the first place – maybe it was to connect the two of you, instead.
Did the writer ever fall in love with a bestie’s ex? What if his real possibility of love existed with the person his best friend had just dumped?